Dear singles, are you ready for dating? I need a woman, I don't need a girl, I need a man, I don't need a boy, Well, that is what I hear when I tune my radio to a certain prominent radio station. With the current prevailing situation, relationships lost meaning, nobody is true even to self. When I asked a colleague why she thinks she loves her man, she asserted, "because of his style and fashion", in lighter terms "swag", in the same line, a bloke claimed he loved his lady because of her patience and discipline. The two captivated and captured my senses, the question today is why date? Are you dating because you want to fit in your colleagues? Are you dating to be viewed as civilized? Are you dating because it is a routine? Do you have any other reasons for dating? I think it's high time to respect your feelings. Date because you have goals, you need an outstanding mother or father for your kids, you need a guy or a lady who wil...